Tim Kerr, a pastor in Canda sent this in. He had a great conversation with a college student named Ray. Here are a few bits and pieces of that conversation:
Ray: "Whats wrong with being homosexual?"
Tim: "Good question Ray. How would you define "marriage"?
Ray: "Two people who love each other and are committed to each other"
Tim: "Why just two? Why not 3 or 4 or 6?"..."I mean if we can change the genders why not change the numbers too?"
Ray: "I'm going to have to think about that...."
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Ray: "Every religion thinks they are right! The way I see it they are all just seeing parts of the whole. No one can claim to know the whole picture"
Tim: "Like the blind men explaining a elephant...one thinks its like a tail, another like a trunk, another like an big flappy ear"
Ray: "Yeah...like that"
Tim: "What wrong with that illustration Ray?"
Ray: "I'm not following you...what do you mean?"
Tim: "Well isn't the person describing this elephant story doing exactly what he is accusing the blind men of doing?"
Ray: "What do you mean?"
Tim: "Well the person describing this is assuming they see the whole elephant...and are therefore able to ascertain that others are only seeing part. We in essence are saying...you only see in part because I see the whole & you are wrong. Thus we think our view is correct. We "see" that the others are blind and only see part. Is not the agnostic or atheist doing the very thing he is accusing the religious people of doing by declaring what is true' ?
Ray: "You're absolutely right!" (at this point Ray seemed to be intrigued by my outlook and started asking good question rather than pure red herrings)
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Ray: "What's this presdestination thing?" Do you Christians really believe God makes it so some can never believe & must go to hell? Why does he even bother making them then?!"
Tim: "Ray imagine 100 people that all owe the bank a million dollars and can't pay. A kind billionare decides to pay for 3 of them and does so but it seems to be arbitrary. Now...when the 97 debtors appear before the Bank Loan Officer, can they complain that its unfair that they have to pay their debt, because 3 of them didn't have to?"
Ray:"But why not pay for everyones debt?...why only three?"
Tim: "Why rather pay for anyone's debt at all if its not yours?...neither you nor I are inclined to pay other peoples debts. The question for me Ray is "Why did God pay anyones debt at all?!!"
Tim: "Ray...do you know what the word "gospel" means?"
Ray: "Not really"
(From there I explained the gospel in simple language to Ray...I had time to do this. Soon he had to go to class.)
His last words to me were: "I'm going to read those two books you sent me...and then maybe we can talk again.." (Mere Christianity & The Reason For God)
Pray for Ray! One lost soul. Only one among so many. But one that has been willing to talk twice to me...with the possibility of more in the future.